The most misunderstood word in history.
To some it is emotional, to some actions , to sone words.. everyone understands it as a language. Though different.
For 27 years, I thought I knew myself so well to know what love was and what I wanted. Everyone expects you to and to an extent you may be fooled into believing that You Know. The more you know, the more you have no idea.
There is a reason why it is meant to go way above the feeling. There is a reason why it has to become a decision. With every decision comes the task of having researched on all variables. Like every decision, you always have options. You have to perform analyses to settle on the best or the viable one.
It is still so hard to understand love
Do I still love when they cannot show up and am always doing the show up? Do I still love when my heart is broken to pieces? Do I still love when he disrepects my child? Do I still love when they are hell bent on messing up my reputation? Do I still love when they go on to mess up the memory of what i held so dear? Do i still love them, the very ones that sagged my shoulders, dropped my head and caused rivers of tears and fear? Why should i still love them and they don’t love me?
That was my definition of love before i met my greatest love. Before i met Christ. Before i let my big brother mould me. It was all about me, selfish and concieted. Now, there is so much more. Every single day I learn something new about love.
Love is making the ultimate sacrifice even when you know those you are doing it for will never appreciate it.
Love is not boastful. It is so silent that you may pass it since it does not have much pomp and colour.
Love is selfless. Love brings death to self and considers the other first.
Love forgives a multitude of sin. It does not cover up, it rebukes but with so much care and kindness
Love does not give up on you. Even when it all looks hopeless, love will reach out and clean you up from depths of misery.
Love when genuine can lift any soul from hurt, can redeem, offers a second chance and has condemnation.
Love does not keep a record of wrongs.
Christ is my ultimate teacher daily. He is the perfect embodiment of love (John 3:16-18) When you look at people from His perspective, You will realize that we all do not deserve all He does for us. We mess up daily and he has to take on the responsibility of correcting and directing us with so much patience. If only we could love as Christ loves. Then so many ‘ damages individuals’ would be a thing of the past. The purity in His love, the gentleness and the willingness to serve can soften any hardened heart. He that knew no sin but had to become sin to set me free. What more do I need to be convinced? ? What more?
1 Corinthians 13:4-8a
Love and let Love. We are since God chose us.
Blessed is He that Giveth…. Love